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I'm Home! I'm Registered! 기 and 도. And Chinese Clothing...

02/05/07

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I'm Home! I'm Registered! 기 and 도. And Chinese Clothing...

I'm back at my own studio! 행복해요! This is a long post because I am so excited to be "home!"

On the way to the studio, I passed Studious, who was running a tray of delivered food back to a restaurant (the boys end up doing this for Master sometimes). He didn't notice me, so I said, "[Studious]! 안녕하새요!"

"Oh! Oh! Amanda! 안녕하새요!" He bowed as best he could with the tray of food.

I walked in, everyone was there (including some black belt kids I've never seen before). Master and I bowed to each other and he said in English, "Um...welcome back!" Then he noticed my Dokdo socks. "Oh! Oh! Amanda! Nice!"

My boys were funny. "Hi, Amanda! Hi! Hi! Amanda!" The older boys were more formal, pretending to meet me for the first time. In Korean, "Hello, how are you? My name is such-and-such. Nice to meet you." It was cute.

There's a tournament sometime in March, so he had the students doing tournament related drills while we reviewed my poomse backwards. Same thing I got at TempStudio: watch my back stances and long stances. Afterwards, I asked some questions about things that I wasn't sure of.

During Yuk Jang was I supposed to get back into starting position by moving my left foot forward or by moving my right food backward? Left foot forward and right away he said, "Oh, Seoul...right foot." Yep, that had been confusing me at the TempStudio. I did it correctly for my studio on the first try, which is good considering I've been doing it the Seoul way for a month.

During Oh Jang how was I supposed to do palkup dollyochigi? Again, he understood immediately. At the TempStudio they put their fist into their palm, knuckles to palm. At our studio we put the side of the fist (the curled pinky fingers side) into the flat side of our palm. He showed me the difference in the way you hit your chest if your opponent hits you with your hand the Seoul way and our way.

And where, exactly, were my body punches supposed to be? Exactly where I was doing them before, not two inches lower.

He set me up in front of the mirror in horse riding stance and we went over nine blocks and strikes. I was happy because I knew the names of eight of them. He asked why I was grinning and I said in Korean, "In January I studied Korean." Hey, I even used the past tense. Wha-hoo! We reviewed some of the finer points of blocking and the first hour of class was over.

During our break, I looked at the whiteboard and saw a list of names for 1st, 2nd, and 3rd poom tests (poom is the junior black belt, the Kukkiwon won't award black belts to people under a certain age). Master said, "Amanda!" and wrote "1단: 아만다." I so appreciate that he always writes my name in Korean. I laughed because I am the only person able to test for dan.

I said, "관장님, 심사 목요일이에요. 알아요." Kwanjangnim, the test is Thursday. I know. I explained that TempMaster kept saying it couldn't be right. Master said that in Seoul and at the Kukkiwon and in Gyeonggido (the province our studio is in) it's always Saturday and Sunday, but the city of Gwangmyeong for whatever reason, tests during the week.

I asked how all of the students could test during the week and he explained that it's their spring break. Now. They just got five weeks off, they're back in school for two, and then they get a two week break? OK. We also chatted briefly about Lunar New Year. The Monday of that weekend there's no class, but the Friday of that weekend we're having a big soccer game. I don't work Friday, so I'm coming to play soccer!

We went down to the office to register me for my black belt test. His wife greeted me kindly and his daughter ran over to me. "Amanda!" We registered me for the test, which including taking a head shot. He lined me up against the wall in their bedroom and his poor wife was running around trying to pick up the (spotless) room. He said, "Oh, my wife..." in English. In Korean I said, "I'm not looking." She smiled. He said he didn't need copies of my passport because he wrote the information down. I hope he's right. I paid for the test.

That's it. I'm registered. The test is paid for. In 17 days I'm testing.

After the break, Master told me to do the nine blocks and strikes in front of the mirror, ten times to each side. When I finished, I said in Korean, "I practiced." (I love knowing the past tense!) He had me work on doing junbi stance the way he wants it, and that got us talking about 단전 (the lower part of the abdomen) and wearing the belt (띠). He drew a figure on the whiteboard, marking the head, feet, and middle. He draw horizontal, vertical, and diagonal lines on the board, pointing out that they all cross at the 단전 point. He said that 기 (energy, spirit, vigor) is there. I learned the word 모이다 (to center on/in/at, to concentrate, to gather together).

I said, "미국에 없어요." In America we don't have this.

"Da Vinci?"

"That was not 기. 우리는 기를 없어요. 아시아 있어요." We don't have 기. Asia has 기. He agreed and I said, "숨쉬기, 가듬, 아니요. 배, 배." Come up for air, chest, no. Stomach, stomach. (I don't know the word for "to breathe," so I figured using the word he uses when he's telling us to breathe would work!)

He said I was right and then started kiyaping from his chest versus his stomach to show the difference.

See, I can learn the art part from him. Yes, we used my digital dictionary because I didn't know those words, but none of my previous Masters have discussed this with me. That could have been for a host of reasons, not the least being that I wasn't ready, but I do appreciate that Master works through language barriers to teach me this stuff. The taekwon- part (hand foot), where to put a wrist, how to do a kick, fine. You watch, you do, your body gets adjusted and moved, you do again. The -do part (way, the "art part")? This you can't learn just by watching.

The rest of the class was some kicking practice. It went well.

I didn't mention this on my earlier post because I wasn't sure they would fit, but they did... I bought Master's children (he has a girl and a boy) some clothing as a small gift. Heidi was a whiz at bargaining, so I got these for a steal. I didn't realize until I was putting them in a gift box today that the dress size 8 and boy's suit size 4 were nearly the same size. Oh well. The boy's jacket is reversible.

During our break, I mentioned to Master that I'd visited Hong Kong and I had a gift for him. (To my immense relief, he didn't ask why I went or if I visited Heidi or anything like that.) He sort of shook his head, and smiled, "Oh, Amanda. Gift?" I don't think I have given him too many gifts—some food for Chuseok, a small gift from Japan, so I wasn't worried. And I've never just given him a gift, it's always been something edible for the family. This was for the children, so I figured it would be alright. I gave it to him during the break and went back upstairs so he could open it.

We did sprints and several minutes later Master's son staggered into the room.The outfit was folded up a bit at the cuffs, but that's OK! Better to be too large than too small! Everyone stopped and greeted his son in Mandarin. Ni hao. In Korean, Master thanked me and said, "Amanda was in Hong Kong." Several seconds later his wife walked in with their daughter. She mouthed "thank you" in English and their daughter twirled around. Some of the students doted on the kids for a while while Master and I worked together on blocks. His daughter ran over and bowed deeply, "Amanda! Kamsahamnida!"

His kids and wife stayed around for about half an hour, then his wife took their son downstairs. His daughter stuck around, and I got this picture of her and Cocky together after class. She was killing him or mountain-climbing him. I'm not sure which.

6 comments

Comment from: Katie [Visitor] Email · http://stagestitches.blogspot.com
Aw, what a fun picture! Master sounds really cool, I'm glad you get to do your final bit of training before your test there! Will you test there at that studio or will the test be somewhere else?
02/06/07 @ 06:00
Comment from: mat [Visitor] Email · http://matschitoryu.blogspot.com
looks like she's mountain climbing.

Best of luck for your test.

Omiyage - or thoughful gifts are part of the tradition in Japan. There's almost an obligation. Especially if you go on a vacation.

Be well,
02/06/07 @ 06:34
Comment from: little cricket [Visitor] Email
Exciting...good luck for your test, and have fun preparing!

lc
02/06/07 @ 12:43
Comment from: admin [Member] Email
Katie, I wouldn't've tested this month if I couldn't train with him. I would've waited. I'll be testing elsewhere (see tonight's post for more details). And yes, Master is a very good guy. Our personalities mesh very well. I'm positive that had I not found this studio with this Master and these "boys," I would not like Korea so much.

Little Cricket, I have written more about preparing in tonight's post. (Not trying to blow you or Katie off, by the way. ^^)

Mat, gift giving is a big part of Korean culture. It's not so much WHAT you give but rather THAT you give. The thing is, it often creates an obligation. I gave him some food for Chuseok, he gave me some fruit in return. I gave him some tea, he gave me a taekwondo calendar in return.

My students have given me things like ddeok (rice cakes) and socks. Because I'm their teacher, I'm not obliged to give anything back.

Although I think my relationship with Master is fluid between student/teacher and friend (in large part because of our ages), I don't care if he gives anything back.

And yes, when you go on vacation, Koreans really like it when you bring things back. I brought back a bag of small chocolate bars and put them in the office at work. My coworkers were very happy. And every bar was gone within a few hours.
02/07/07 @ 00:58
Comment from: mat [Visitor] Email · http://matschitoryu.blogspot.com
That's such a nice tradition!

I wish we had such things around here. It sure makes relationships at work more enjoyable :D

Giri(obligation) seems to be a big part of the culture where you are. And indeed, it's not the WHAT, but THAT which is important.

I intend to implant this tradition where I work. It's often quite easily done. Under 10 or 20$ and you've got gifts for everyone.

:D

=Be well,
02/07/07 @ 01:16
Comment from: admin [Member] Email
Yeah, the whole bag (white, milk, dark, and "cookies") of bars was under $5. I did buy something in specific for my boss, but she wasn't there at all today and I wasn't going to wait until she showed to give everyone else the chocolate!
02/07/07 @ 01:28

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An American educator moves moved to Korea, presumably to teach English. Instead she discovers discovered that learning Korean one taekwondo class at a time is was a more captivating activity.

Somewhere along the way, she met a Good Man, fell in love, and ended up back in the States. Still doing taekwondo, still learning Korean...

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