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My birthday is next week. Next week we have Monday through Wednesday off for Chuseok. Thank you, Korea! So today after lunch, my vice principal threw a little party. We had real cake (not rice cake cake), eaten with chopsticks of course, juice, soda, and I got a bunch of little cards and some small gifts. I thought that was very nice.
I said, "And next week we have three days of no work. Yay!" in Korean.
My married female coworkers all groaned and said I was only happy because I wasn't married. Daughter-in-laws have to cook so much food for Chuseok, every Korean woman I know dreads this holiday.
I said, "But I am not an ajumma, so I am happy." The women nodded and told me I was lucky.
(When the coworker, out of the blue, told me to never marry a Korean man, she said that they were too traditional, expected women to do everything, you had to see their parents too much, etc. I said to her, "Any Korean man who would marry a foreigner can't be that traditional." Her face lit up and she said, "Oh! Then you would be very lucky!" If I married a Korean guy, I still wouldn't do the Chuseok cooking. I'm not Korean.)
When I got to my last class of the day, my coteacher had gotten the students to decorate the room. I was so surprised! I thought it was very sweet.


