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Astute Crybaby

11/30/07

Permalink 09:39:20 pm, by admin Email , 514 words   English (US)
Categories: ...and Takes On, Korea, Tae Kwon Do, Food and Drink

Astute Crybaby

On a TV show I quickly changed, I saw a man trying to shove a live octopus into a hollowed out onion in a boiling pot of soup.

Yesterday, rushing to taekwondo, I passed one of the dozens of fish shops in the market. The proprietor was whistling away, a blue plastic watering can in his hands. He was watering his dead fish.

***

Tonight's taekwondo class was a test, but it was an unusual one. We met our new Sabumnim since New Sabumnim is now in China teaching the women's national team. She's 20 years old, a 4th dan, and this is her first job as a sabumnim. She's a student at the police academy! I have never seen a female police officer in South Korea, so I think that's pretty neat.

After class I took Crybaby out to dinner. We went to the restaurant I used to take the boys to all the time. The owners said, "Long time, no see!"

I blushed, "I know...I'm sorry, I've been busy."

While we were eating, Crybaby made what I thought was a rather astute observation for a 6th grader. She said, "Amanda, you used to talk to Master after class all the time. But now you don't. Why?"

Well, first, Master isn't in class a lot lately. I don't know why, but he's been leaving a lot of class to Goalie. But I didn't say that. Instead I said, "When I was working at the hogwon, I could stay late. I didn't work until 10 am. And I wasn't getting paid. So if I was late, it was OK. Now I am working at a public school and have to go to school at 8. And I can't be late." She nodded and I got to the real meat. "When I was working at the hogwon, I wasn't getting paid. She still owes me 2,500,000 won."

Crybaby's eyes got very big and she double-checked my numbers. When she was satisfied that she understood, I continued. "I missed home. I didn't like my job. I didn't have a house!" I use my dictionary to look up "evicted" and show it to her. "I loved taekwondo. Only taekwondo. And Master's family was my family. But now I have a nice job. And I like my house. And I have [Good Man]. So I like Korea more."

"Ah," she nodded.

"I think Master understands. He is a smart man. And he's met [Good Man]. He knows I am happier now."

"Ah. I understand," she said.

I think I was right, I think Master understands. But coincidentally, last night after class I said, "Master, we need to drink soju. It's been too long."

"When was the last time we had soju?"

"I think in May, when my parents were here."

He glanced at the calendar. "Ah, and with [Good Man]!"

"Oh yeah, but that was in August. We need some soju. How about the night before the election, because I don't have school?"

He gave me a thumbs up, "OK!" A few moments later, "Oh, Amanda, [Good Man] come too? Ask him."

6 comments

Comment from: Katie [Visitor] Email · http://stagestitches.blogspot.com
It's amazing what kids will pick up on, isn't it?
12/01/07 @ 05:59
Comment from: Robbin [Visitor] Email
Yeah...it's time to drink soju again. Take a sip for me.

Robbin
12/01/07 @ 06:34
Comment from: Diana [Visitor] Email · http://storysinger81.blogspot.com/
This is a very sweet post...
12/01/07 @ 08:18
Comment from: admin [Member] Email
Katie, it wasn't just that she picked up on it, it's that she asked about it. I didn't want to pull that "none of your business thing" or the thing adults say to kids, "you'll understand later." She's a sweet kid, she's a smart kid. At one point I said something like, "Master's family always my family. But my job...my life in Korea, they're different now."

Robbin, will do.

Diana, it was a nice conversation. :)
12/01/07 @ 08:28
Comment from: Jennifer [Visitor] Email · http://www.jennipal.blogspot.com
good story........so is goodman going to go for soju?
12/01/07 @ 18:06
Comment from: admin [Member] Email
If he can get the time off of work. Otherwise it'll be us. I'm sure we'll all go out together again soon enough.

(BTW, Jennifer, can you email me the details of where you stayed/how much it cost in Jeju?)
12/01/07 @ 18:48

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An American educator moves to Korea, presumably to teach English. Instead she discovers that learning Korean one taekwondo class at a time is a more captivating activity.

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