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Love Letter Text Messages

12/04/07

Permalink 09:35:25 pm, by admin Email , 351 words   English (US)
Categories: ...and Takes On, Korea, 사랑?

Love Letter Text Messages

While I was waiting to meet Good Man to have fish eat our feet, I saw a guy taking pictures of a guy skateboarding. So I took pictures of them. Actually, at one point I was standing next to this...raised platform/sitting/meeting/thingy area and the skater zoomed past me, about 6 inches from me.

I guess he figured I wasn't going to move.

After that, I figured I had every right to shoot photos of him.

All photos taken with the D80 and 50mm lens. I shot in shutter priority, 1/80th and 1/125th.



First Try I



First Try II



Second Try

After these shots, I decided I needed to focus on the last half of the run more (I had tons of boring shots of the first half of his runs). I got the last half of this run. The "X" he's making tells me that he wasn't happy with the run.



Third Try I



Third Try II



Third Try III

***

Tonight I got some terribly, terribly long messages on my handphone.

"Good Man, what do they say?"

"They're from a lover."

"A lover?"

He nodded. "Yes."

"Well!?" I looked at him, "What do they say?"

"I miss you all the time...I love our time together...when I can't call you I can't get any work done...I can't sleep...I really like our time together."

Earlier I'd sent the guy a "Who are you?" message (in polite Korean). He'd written back an apology, that he'd meant to send it to his girlfriend. After Good Man told me his messages, I texted the man again, this time in English. "Your girlfriend is very lucky! You really love her! Good night! ^^"

Good Man was curled up next to me on the couch. I looked at him. "Hey. Why don't you send me sweet messages like that?"

He lifted his head to look at me, smiled.

"I'm serious," I laughed, "I want sweet messages like that. You need to go back to a military day. Send me messages from your helmet."

"But I do your dishes."

I burst out laughing.

3 comments

Comment from: Ramsey [Visitor] Email · http://vtpapp.blogspot.com/
I think the dishes thing is really the way to say I love you...

I've been trying to get my husband to understand the service as love thing forever!!
12/05/07 @ 05:52
Comment from: admin [Member] Email
Ramsey, I remember reading somewhere about the theory of the five languages of love. Never read those books, but the idea was that people like to get and express love in one of five primary ways. Using words, spending time together, giving gifts, doing things (like chores), and physical contact.

Sounds like you're under the doing things section. :)
12/05/07 @ 12:16
Comment from: Ramsey [Visitor] Email · http://vtpapp.blogspot.com/
You bet! I have actually read that book and it is pretty interesting to see the differences. My husband and I are totally different and for awhile I really focused on showing him love in his "language". It is hard. I think maybe I should read it again! I have one about children too. Anyone can say I love you but sometimes it is not so easy to show it. ( I do actually know a few men who have a very hard time saying it..You know the "I told you once if I change my mind I'll let you know " guys)
12/07/07 @ 07:23

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