I laughed and said as politely but firmly as I could, “Just remember Ms. I will never be a Mrs.”
She wants us to get married in Korea so she can get all of the wedding money she’s given to friends’ children back.
Good Man told me this and it actually made sense to me. (Note to self: how Korean.)
So apparently, eventually, we might be having a second wedding in Korea.
I’ll let Mother plan it, however she wishes. Go for it, Mother.
I’m sending quick notes to the grandparents, to let them know of the wedding date before the invitations go out.
I may be 28, but I still send address letters to my grandparents as “Grandma and Grandpa 모모.” I asked her if I could use their first names, or if I had to suddenly switch to the more “proper” “Mr. and Mrs. 모모.”
Thankfully, Mom said she thought using their first names would be fine. She thinks, like I do, that suddenly changing over to a formal form of addressing envelopes would make the wedding seem much more formal than it is.
I’ve got to say, this wedding planning thing isn’t the big stressful mess I thought it was supposed to be.